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How to be the BEST Life Coach

You can be a life coach for yourself. You always have chance to reshape your whole life.

There are people around you whom you love and who needs you. They can be your children, your spouse, your colleague or anyone else whom you care about. Sometimes this can be you, who need help. You can use the same coaching way for yourself as well.

Actually both ways of coaching can be successful on different people. So, you need to know the details how they work and why?

There are negative and positive ways of coaching.

The negative way is focusing on the faults that have been done and criticizing it.

The positive way, on the other hand, is focusing on the results that people desire to get.

When you consider negative way;

You find the negative emotional attractors like their faults or regrets

You force people to think about them

People start defending

They close themselves

Any way they begin to think about change.

When you consider positive way;

You find the positive emotional attractors like their desires or goals

You force people to think about the future

Focusing on the future will help for better cognitive functioning and increase the perceptual accuracy

They will begin to notice the possibilities around them with this positive attitude.

The key of effective coaching is to help people, to find out the possibilities, no matter why they need coaching in the first place. You cannot decide on behalf of others but you can help them notice as much possibilities as they can. You must use this technique for yourself as well. Every kind of success depends on possibilities. Every decision you make comes with possibilities no matter your decision was successful or not.

At the end;

*Focus on the future

*Focus on your goals which help you take a step forward

*Keep your positive attitude

*Notice the possibilities

*Find out the details in the possibilities

*Turn the possibilities into opportunities with these details for your success.

Do you know one of the most important tricks of life coaching?

Do you know the way of most effective life coaching?

Most importantly, how do you help people, discover the possibilities when they need you?

If you want to really help someone, you must know how to do it. There are two ways of life coaching; focusing on future with compassion or focusing on the faults and criticizing them. Which is the best do you think? This is not hard to answer. But do you really know why compassionate coaching is better?

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Acupuncture for Cats and Dogs: Holistic Therapies for Companion Animals and Farm Livestock

The most popular holistic therapies chosen by people with chronic health problems are acupuncture, herbal medicines – both Western and Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) – massage, aromatherapy and energy healing such as reiki.

It’s taken a little longer, but veterinary surgeons in Britain, Australia and the US are starting to embrace these holistic therapies for animals with chronic conditions.

Western Veterinary Medicine Vs Holistic Therapies?

Australian vets interviewed for a forthcoming series on holistic therapies stress it is not a case of either/or.

“It’s more a case of what is the best treatment or combination of treatments for that condition in that animal,” says Dr Bruce Ferguson, President of the American Association of Traditional Chinese Veterinary Medicine.

Dr Ferguson divides his time between The Chi Institute of Chinese Medicine, Reddick, Florida, his holistic veterinary practice in Perth, Western Australia, and lecturing in TCVM (Traditional Chinese Veterinary Medicine) to final year veterinary students at Murdoch University, in WA.

“A vet must always act in the best interests of the patient,” he says.

“So, it’s important not to be exclusively for one therapy or another. The practice must be integrated to help the animal.

“Vets need to think outside of the box of their training. They should know that acupuncture, food therapy, herbs, can help, especially for chronic conditions that western veterinary medicine can’t fix.

Holistic Therapies for Chronic Conditions

Dr Ferguson is one of the growing numbers of vets worldwide practising holistic therapies to meet the needs of pet owners and breeders who want treatment for their animals when their western trained vet says “I’m sorry, there’s nothing more I can do.”

The animals are generally suffering from chronic or degenerative conditions affecting their digestive systems, joints and skin. These are conditions that surgery can’t fix, or pharmaceuticals merely maintain or even make the condition worse.

“The demand is coming from our clients”, say many of the vets interviewed. “They know holistic therapies work for humans and they want the same benefits for the animals they love.”

Some holistic vets also work with wildlife rescue organizations, mainly applying acupuncture to relieve pain and distress.

Acupuncture the First Step

As with human medicine, acupuncture is often the first step for vets considering holistic therapies. Acupuncture is widely recognized for musculo-skeletal pain relief and neurological problems, and, combined with herbs, for treating chronic skin and digestive conditions such as eczema and irritable bowel.

Veterinary acupuncture has been practised in the US for well over a decade.

“Acupuncture has proven to be a safe and relatively painless treatment for a variety of illnesses in animals,” says Dr. Mark Crisman, professor of Large Animal Clinical Sciences in the Virginia-Maryland Regional College of Veterinary Medicine at Virginia Tech.

He recently used acupuncture to cure a horse of painful lameness resulting from a leg infection.

Animals Find Acupuncture Soothing

President of the Australian Veterinary Acupuncture Group (AVAG), Dr Esther Horton says acupuncture is suitable for a wide range of animals. She mainly works with dogs and cats, but has also treated koalas for a wildlife organization.

Most animals find acupuncture quite soothing and relaxing, she says, and are usually docile, especially if they have had the treatment before. Cats, in particular, tend to fall asleep.

“The koalas were better behaved than some cats and dogs that I see, so it really depends on the individual animals, as to how well they take the treatment.

“In general though, most animals find acupuncture quite relaxing, as people do, so they usually do not need restraint and only rarely need sedation.”